Opinion: New York Should Do Better for Moms on Rikers
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“The mothers and daughters at Rosie’s deserve better. Many can be safely brought back to our families and communities to get treatment, services and support.”
Read MoreOpinion: Vote yes on green energy for Western Queens
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“When we look at the two projects, selected by NYSERDA and Governor Kathy Hochul, to bring us clean renewable energy, I have heard some opposition about cost. But let’s dissect that argument.”
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Opinion: Keep on the path to borough-based jails
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“Operating a jail system that isolates, deprives, and tortures people corrupts the legal system as whole, and it corrupts the people who are held there. It also corrupts the society that condones it.”
Read MoreOpinion: Watch for teen dating violence warning signs
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Dating violence, affects individuals regardless of their age, but teenagers are particularly vulnerable.
Read MoreOpinion: Working toward a green future in New York City
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New York City has made great strides to become “greener,” but climate change is still one of the biggest threats facing our city – and our country.
Read MoreOpinion: Remembering John Swett Rock, a pioneering Black attorney
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John Swett Rock was a teacher, dentist, medical doctor and abolitionist, in addition to being Massachusetts’ fourth Black lawyer, and the first Black person admitted to practice before the United States Supreme Court.
Read MoreOpinion: Looking back at the year in the Queens DA’s office
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We have made significant strides against criminal activity.
Read MoreAwareness initiative against gender-based violence highlights pandemic impact
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The annual 16 Days of Activism against Gender Based Violence campaign runs from November 25th, UN International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, to December 10th, UN International Human Rights Day.
Read MoreOpinion: Close the ‘bad faith’ insurance loophole
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“Insurance is a lifeline — or at least it is supposed to be. But submitting a claim is a long and arduous process, with many loopholes designed to keep people from getting the payment to which they are entitled.”
Read MoreOpinion: Domestic violence awareness is crucial year-round
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Photo by William Alatriste
By ENDGBV Voices Committee
It is the end of October 2021 and we have come to the closing of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. During DVAM, we raise awareness about the experiences of survivors of domestic abuse, we share information about the services, and resources available throughout New York City to victims, and highlight the intricacies of gender-based violence.
One in 4 women, and 1 in 10 men have experienced intimate partner violence during their lifetime. This unfortunate phenomenon occurs in every part of our city, among people of all races, cultures, religions, and income levels; and can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation. While domestic violence is one of the most underreported crimes, in 2020, there were 233,006 incident reports filed by the NYPD — an average of almost 640 a day.
The dynamics of domestic violence center around power and control. It is not always physical violence, and can involve abusive financial, emotional, psychological, sexual tactics being used to exploit another person. It is a form of domestic terrorism, where one’s vulnerabilities are attacked, the negative aspects of one’s personality may be maliciously pointed out to break one down, and intimacy from one’s partner is withheld, for example. In addition, aspects of coercive control can come into play, where the abused individual’s parenting is targeted and children weaponized.
Survivorship involves challenging state systems and acknowledging society’s role in the experiences of survivors. Victim-survivor’s stories or behaviors may be contradictory, due to trauma bonding with the survivor often rationalizing the bad behavior from abusers. Many survivors are re-learning what love looks like and some simple tasks may be complex. It is imperative that empathy, compassion, and understanding be extended towards these individuals, and that they receive trauma informed support.
The ENDGBV VOICES Committee is a survivor-led group that serves as a voice of hope and change. We share our stories and experiences to raise awareness of intimate partner violence and its impacts, outreach to affected communities, and make recommendations for improved systemic responses, as we work towards a future in which all New Yorkers, regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, age, sexual orientation, or immigration status, feel supported in pursuing lives free from abuse. You can reach out to the VOICES Committee at voices@endgbv.nyc.gov with questions.
If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, we are here for you, and you are never alone. Help is available by calling 311 to find a Family Justice Center in your borough. They can assist with safety planning, applying for public benefits, mental health services and legal help for orders of protection, divorce and immigration. One can also call the 24-Hour NYC Domestic Violence hotline at 1-800-621-HOPE. Other resources and support can be accessed by searching the City’s HOPE Resource Directory online at www.nyc.gov/NYCHOPE.
Opinion: Back to school stress can spark domestic violence
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Back to school is generally accompanied by angst, trepidation, and bated excitement.
Read MoreOpinion: Astoria stands united against NRG and fracked gas
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“To propose building a polluting plant in spite of the known health impacts it would have on the community is an insult.”
Read MoreOpinion: Invest in college students by doubling Pell Grants
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“Anyone who knows a Pell Grant recipient better understands the incalculable worth of the largest grant program offered by the Department of Education to undergraduate students.”
Read MoreOpinion: Following Hurricane Ida, city must push to legalize basement apartments
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“While some have argued in the wake of Hurricane Ida that the city should crack down harshly on illegal basements, I believe we must make them safe and livable for the tens of thousands of residents who already reside in these units.”
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